One of the important moments that make up a healthy relationship is reciprocity. But it also happens that one of the partners does not notice how instead of the joy of meetings they get a set of problems.
It is vital to keep your finger on the pulse so that you can put an end to it if necessary. But to do this, you need to have an understanding of the relationships that are causing pain.
Your partner should understand that everyone has shortcomings, including him. But he clearly does not understand this if his self-esteem is too high, or he ignores the desires and interests of others.
This also includes a reluctance to admit mistakes or the habit of shifting problems and responsibility onto others.
This is about vindictive or touchy people.
When you get involved with someone like this, be prepared that instead of solving problems, the person who appears in your life will value the feeling of resentment.
As a result, such a “victim” gradually begins to manipulate.
This is about reciprocity, or rather its absence. It must be admitted that not everyone is ready to maintain balance or maintain harmony in a relationship.
That's why you meet people who openly sit and wait for someone to come, save or help them.
In each of these cases, there is no talk of any respect or equality.
Earlier we talked about how to understand that a relationship is doomed .