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Why Jealousy Arises in Relationships: Experts Name 3 Common Reasons
12.02.2024 10:26
A healthy dose of jealousy should be present in any relationship that is based on love and genuine feelings.
But it should not take a pathological form.
Otherwise, jealousy can simply destroy the relationship, experts say.
What is the most common reason for this unpleasant feeling?
Lack of self-confidence of one of the partners
In this case, the person believes that he does not "deserve" his partner. It seems to him that the people around him are much more attractive.
Constant doubts about oneself and one's own importance arise.
A person thinks that his partner will leave as soon as a more worthy option is found. Therefore, the loved one is "surveilled" and scandals occur over the slightest trifles.
This is a very dangerous form of jealousy. It is better for a person to solve psychological problems and determine his self-esteem. Otherwise, he simply risks being alone one day.
Form of manipulation
Sometimes not all people are capable of creating healthy relationships: abuse has long ceased to be something unacceptable or unfamiliar.
In such a case, the person is made to feel as if he is behaving inappropriately.
This is done in order to take complete control of the loved one.
Inappropriate behavior
Sometimes the reasons are much more banal. If your man constantly looks at photos of other women, writes to them on social networks and even on the street he can’t control himself, then jealousy is guaranteed.
In that case, you need to decide: are you ready to tolerate this kind of disrespect on a permanent basis?
It is quite possible that a simple honest conversation will be enough. Explain that this behavior makes you feel bad. If your partner really loves you, he or she will not hurt you.
Earlier we talked about five tricks that will help you attract a worthy man .
