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Why quarrels and scandals have become more frequent in families: experts have named 5 main reasons
29.12.2023 12:01
Even in a happy family, disagreements can arise from time to time, so there is no need to worry about relatively rare quarrels.
However, some spouses quarrel almost constantly.
In this case, there is no point in talking about healthy family relationships. In order to become a friendly and happy family again, you need to understand the reasons for frequent quarrels.
What to look out for
Physical or emotional fatigue of one of the spouses
If you or your husband have hard physical work or it is associated with constant stress, then it is difficult to build harmonious family relationships.
A person simply cannot relax and recover. Due to fatigue, quarrels often arise, since a person is not in the mood for constructiveness at such moments.
The appearance of a third "figure" in the relationship
Having lovers has never made any relationship stronger. If a third person appears in a relationship, then quarrels and scandals begin to occur in the family.
Therefore, it is worth thinking several times before making such a mistake.
An ill-considered choice of partner
Experts note that when choosing a spouse, it is important to pay attention not only to financial solvency, absence of bad habits and external attractiveness.
It is important to have a spiritual connection.
If, in essence, nothing connects you, then family relationships will be exhausting.
Belief in one's own rightness
Some people don't even think about the possibility that the other person might be right. That's why they are ready to argue with their spouse until they are literally hoarse.
Building a family with such people is difficult, especially if they deny that they have any shortcomings.
General dissatisfaction with the relationship
It's scary to admit, but sometimes family relationships can be a total disappointment. This often happens to people who make a hasty decision to get married.
Others simply idealize family relationships, but have little idea of what they look like in reality.
Previously, we talked about the tricks you can use to maintain a long-distance relationship .
