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Why you shouldn't forbid a man to communicate with friends: you can lose a person - don't make mistakes
27.12.2023 10:16
Many women try to "discourage" friends from their loved one, because they see them as a threat to their relationship.
Some ladies elegantly manipulate so that a man gets the impression that he himself has decided to communicate less with his friends.
Others simply issue ultimatums and create scandals.
Why You Shouldn't Forbid a Man to Communicate with His Friends
You isolate him from the outside world.
Social connections are important for every person, so many of them are created over decades. Your loved one needs to spend time in the company of other men in order to communicate on common topics, exchange experiences, and share common interests.
Social isolation has never done anyone any good. Some men can even become withdrawn. So don't limit a man's desire to spend time with close friends.
You are demonstrating your low self-esteem.
A self-confident woman will not see her husband's friends as a threat to her relationship. If a man truly loves you and values your marriage, no one will force him to make a mistake.
If he is already inclined to betrayal, he will find an opportunity to commit a crime without the help of friends.
If you start manipulating or making a scene, you are simply showing your insecurity and low self-esteem, experts say.
You are depriving a person of an important social circle.
Men often discuss "their" topics that women may simply not be interested in - technical issues, earnings, opportunities for increasing income growth, car care, sports and much more.
It is important for people to discuss this and share experiences. If you deprive a man of this opportunity, he will start looking for options to fill the resulting void. Sometimes these options can be very unpleasant.
A man will eventually understand who he shouldn't communicate with.
Your loved one also has experience, knowledge and the ability to draw conclusions on their own. If they notice that one of their friends has stopped being a good person to talk to and spend time with, they will end the relationship themselves.
Earlier we talked about what gifts you shouldn’t give your husband for the New Year .
