Why some modern men do not want to provide for a woman: experts named 5 reasons

17.11.2023 16:00

You've probably heard that some men are in no hurry to provide for their partners, choosing separate budgets.

Some women even agree to this format of relationship.

Why does this happen?

The man has a low-paying job

Not everyone is lucky enough to get a good specialty, find a decent job or start their own business. In this case, the man will have a very modest income.

In this case, he simply will not be able to take on the responsibility of providing for the woman and the family.

Egoism

Some men feel that they are too good to "pay" women for relationships. They want to find a partner who is willing to take on equal financial obligations.

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Such men often have inflated self-esteem and are accustomed to female attention, experts note.

Greed

It is worth remembering that some people are simply not ready to spend extra money, because they love it the most. It is extremely difficult to build relationships with greedy men.

Even at the courtship stage, you won’t get an invitation to a restaurant or a bouquet of flowers from them.

Alien influence

There are people who believe that a woman is obliged to contribute equally to the family budget, so the "expenses" on her should be minimal.

As a rule, a man can get such thoughts from social networks and even take them on faith. However, it is worth understanding that an adult sensible person cannot so easily succumb to someone else's influence. This means that the man is too trusting or these thoughts resonate with him.

Personal Philosophy

Some modern men sincerely believe that women no longer need a man's resources. Since girls have jobs, they no longer need help.

It is the most difficult to build relationships with such men, since they truly believe that a woman should work, provide for her own needs, but at the same time, out of the “kindness of her heart,” take care of all household chores.

Author: Marina Michalap Internet resource editor

Content
  1. Why does this happen?
  2. The man has a low-paying job
  3. Egoism
  4. Greed
  5. Alien influence
  6. Personal Philosophy