Every person has his own characteristics. Some of them he has from birth, some he acquires.
The first ones are difficult to work with, but still possible if you set a goal and start making serious efforts. But what has been acquired is much easier to deal with, although this will make you try.
You should start small. An individual may have habits that need to be gotten rid of without fail. He can start with several that actually interfere with life.
This is not worth trying to do. A person can deceive someone, but not himself. If he tries to do this, he will mislead himself, he will believe in something that does not exist.
And this will slow down his development, will not allow him to become who he wants. In such a situation, he may simply miss many opportunities.
If it holds a person, then he will not develop. He will be absorbed in thoughts about what is gone, about what is no longer there, what cannot be fixed. All this would not be so scary if it did not waste energy.
For this reason, it is worth giving up thoughts about the past, focusing on the present, on plans for the future. This will allow you to be more productive.
A person may tremble at the prospect of making a mistake, doing something wrong. He will be afraid of the consequences, of being judged by others. As a result, he will limit himself in his actions, and will not allow himself to act in such a way as to reach the pinnacle of success.
As a result, he will miss many opportunities and will not be able to realize his plans.
Laziness makes you waste time. It does not return, so you should think about how to rationally manage this resource. You need to plan every day, think through every step.
In this case, you won't miss a single minute, and you'll be able to spend every day usefully. And that's exactly what you need to live a fulfilling life.
These habits need to be crossed out forever. They only poison life, do not allow it to be spent as one wants, as it will be rational and useful for the individual himself.