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3 Situations in Relationships When It's Okay to Lie
04.11.2024 17:20
The absence of lies is an important condition for maintaining trust between partners.
It's very simple: don't lie to your loved one, even in small things.
In this case, you will be able to create a truly strong couple.
There are, however, a few exceptions to the rule. There are situations in which it is better to lie.
So, when will the truth only do harm?
When your partner asks provocative questions
"Have you ever loved anyone more than me?" or "Do you think anyone is more beautiful than me?"
Sound familiar? Know: this is a provocation. Most likely, your other half is trying to find a reason to be jealous.
Don't give in. There's no point in revealing your true feelings. Instead, convince your partner that he or she is the best. This way, you'll prevent a fight.
When you need to support your partner
You can also tell a lie in a relationship if the goal is not deception itself, but moral support for your significant other.
Example: "I lost my job because I didn't do my job well." Counter: "No, it had nothing to do with you. It was just the way things worked out."
When you need to get away from a dangerous person
It is also worth lying in a situation where there is a need to break up with an aggressive partner.
Of course, an honest person will say directly: “We need to break off the relationship.”
But no one knows what the other person's reaction will be. So it's better to come up with a story about a "long trip".
