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Why You Shouldn't Stop a Small Child from Crying: A Common Mistake Parents Make
05.12.2024 07:54
Let's imagine a situation: your child started crying at home or in a public place.
What will you say to the baby at this moment?
“Stop crying right now!”, “If you don’t stop crying right now, then…”: if you use any of these options, you will make a grave mistake.
Don't yell at a crying child, don't criticize him or threaten him!
And don't set a ban on tears for your baby.
Why you shouldn't stop a child from crying
The nervous system of young children is characterized by “immaturity”.
Children simply do not know how to contain negative emotions or properly “redirect” them (physical activity, creativity, games, etc.)
If a small child experiences fear, hurt or disappointment, he will most likely start crying without even trying to hold back. The child simply will not be able to relieve tension otherwise.
When parents impose a “tear ban” on their child, it can lead to serious psychological and mental problems in the future.
Therefore, do not forbid your son or daughter to cry.
What to do if your baby is crying
No need to shout. And in general, there is no need to say anything. Just hug your child. This action is enough for the child to feel support and understanding from your side.
If your baby starts crying in a public place, just take the baby by the hand and try to take him to a place where there aren't many people (or where there aren't any at all). And then, again, hug the baby.
