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Why do parents interfere in their children's personal lives: maybe they are just bored
25.11.2024 16:07
Parental interference in the life of a child, including a fairly mature child, has an explanation.
At the very least, the "child" is happy with this. But it depends no less on the parents themselves. Some do this, frankly speaking, out of boredom.
Here are some common reasons why parents continue to correct the behavior of their grown-up children.
They have plans for your life.
If so, it all started in your childhood. Your mom and dad must have seen you with a violin in your hands or in a white doctor's coat, and it turned out that their son or daughter became a freelancer.
Maybe they find it difficult to accept the surrounding reality and they do not accept change?
They are worried
In such cases, people usually want things to be the best, i.e. like they were when your parents were young.
That's why they look with hostility at loans, work in a private organization, and are genuinely frightened when their children try to start a private business.
Because of their fears, they try to warn their children against possible failure, which they fear more than the children themselves.
If there is an addiction
The situation is complicated, but it happens. If an adult son gets married and the young family has nowhere to live except with his parents, then this is called dependence.
There is nothing surprising about this. If you want to live by your own mind, then get your own living space.
Parents get bored sometimes
Up to a certain point, they dedicated their entire lives to you, and you went and got married.
Not all parents are ready to accept the fact that their children are leaving their home, so they continue to devote their lives to their adult children.
Children decide for themselves
By obediently submitting to the will of your mom and dad, you yourself allow them to manipulate, establish unnecessary rules and orders in your family, etc.
Usually, those who end up in such stories are those who believe that they are guilty before their parents, that they owe something and are obligated to do something.
But helping your parents and doing what you are forced to do are two different things.
For reference
Parents are a person's closest relatives and form the basis of his family.
