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What You Shouldn't Criticize Your Daughter For: 2 Common Mistakes Parents Make
15.08.2024 21:58
A complete lack of criticism from parents can spoil a child.
A child who is only admired will likely become arrogant.
That's why sometimes a child needs to be criticized.
Pay attention to the mistakes made by the child. But do it as correctly as possible.
Otherwise, the baby will not want to correct mistakes.
Also, remember that there are things for which a child (especially if we are talking about a girl) should not be criticized at all.
For completeness
If your daughter has gained weight, don't tell her: "You're fat and ugly! You need to lose weight urgently!"
Such a reaction from parents will make the girl feel inferior.
Yes, it is quite possible that the child will manage to lose weight. But it is possible that problems with self-esteem will remain. In addition, the girl may begin to eat incorrectly, refusing important products.
Want to help your daughter lose weight? Never criticize or humiliate your child! Just calmly suggest making certain changes to her diet.
And emphasize that you need to get rid of excess weight for the sake of improving your health, not for the sake of improving your appearance.
Also, don't forget to consult your doctor.
For the peculiarities of appearance
Don't make fun of your daughter for her big nose, protruding ears, or other appearance features.
Many girls perceive such “jokes” as too painful.
By criticizing your child's appearance, you make him feel insecure.
