Parents dream that their beloved and desired child will achieve success in life.
They do everything to ensure financial stability for the well-being of the family, and in this rush they sometimes forget that they just need to talk to the child. Pay attention to him and let him know how dear he is to them.
Unfortunately, sometimes we don't always know how to express our thoughts, and this is very important. To choose the right words and say them sincerely at the right time.
"I love you", "You are the most beloved". You can and should repeat endlessly to a newborn, a teenager, and an adult. But you need to add an action to these words: hug, kiss. Tell something interesting. Play your favorite game. Discuss the cartoon you watched.
"I know you can do it", "You are strong, I believe in you". If you need support at a crucial moment. When a child doubts his strength, cannot overcome the fear of the new and untested. And in general, talk about it more often to strengthen his spirit. Increase self-esteem.
"We will always support and protect you, no matter what happens." Safety is very important for a child. He feels confident when he has a reliable rear behind him. He boldly takes on difficult tasks and copes with them. This means that he will be confident in himself in the future.
"You are smart and brave", "I am proud of you". When you notice that your son or daughter is sad or upset about something, cheer them up. And you can praise without a reason, just like that.
Know how to ask for forgiveness if you suddenly offended your child unfairly. Don't be shy to show that you are wrong. Let him feel that you respect his personality. Then he will understand that it is not shameful to admit his mistake.
Don't forget to praise your baby. "You're such a good boy, you cleaned everything up." It's important for him that his efforts were appreciated. There will be an incentive to continue cleaning up after himself and helping his mother. It will become a habit.
"I'm so sorry that this happened", "How can I help you?" It is important and necessary to show sympathy. The toy broke. The craft didn't work out. Don't stop him from crying about it. Let him vent his negative emotions. And then feel sorry for him, hug him, caress him. Help him fix the toy, make a new craft. The little one will be grateful for your concern.
Of course, you don't have to repeat memorized phrases every day. Everything is good in moderation. Try to always be there, expressing your emotions and thoughts with these words and phrases. Always be attentive and honest with your children. And your efforts will not be in vain, they will become the key to the child's future success.
If you've never done this, it's time to catch up.
Previously, we wrote about how to help your child get used to kindergarten .