A principle that parents should erase from their lives has been named: it may surprise you
For a long time, it seemed completely natural that parents would constantly sacrifice something for the sake of their children.
Modern researchers say that there may be an excess here. Especially if parents begin to live for the sake of their children, that is, they give all the best.
This is a completely understandable desire, but it should not be this way, experts say.
Firstly, there is a huge industry working to popularize this way of life.
Manufacturers of clothing, toys, technology and entertainment do not stand still and constantly tempt children with new developments so that parents spend money, earn more and start spending even more.
Secondly, with age, children raised by very caring parents have growing demands. Accordingly, parents' expenses increase.
Naturally, no parent wants their child to look worse than their neighbor's.
Thirdly, it has long been proven that overprotection prevents the growth of an independent and goal-oriented person.
Why is this bad?
1. In any case, the system of family values is violated when children begin to ignore the value of life and the wishes of their parents.
2. Adults themselves lose interest in life, forget about basic rest, entertainment and simply become exhausted.
3. Despite all this, the child may one day decide that his parents should have given him not only an education, but also start-up capital, housing and a car.
Therefore, moms and dads must not forget about each other, so as not to start living to the detriment of themselves.
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