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Why You Shouldn't Scold Children: How to Raise a Happy Child
21.04.2024 01:20
Parents often resort to swearing as a method of influence, but many psychologists warn about the negative consequences of this approach. Therefore, it is worth understanding why you should not scold children, and what recommendations psychology gives.
Negative impact on self-esteem
Swearing and criticism can negatively impact a child's self-esteem and confidence.
Constantly hearing “you’re bad” or “you can’t do anything” can form a negative image in a child about himself and his abilities.
Increased aggression and anxiety
Psychologists note that children who are regularly subjected to swearing may become more aggressive and anxious. They may begin to adopt aggressive behavior and use it in their interactions with others.
Fear and avoidance of communication
Children who are frequently subjected to emotional pressure may become afraid to communicate with their parents for fear of being judged or criticized again. This can lead to distance in the relationship and a breakdown in trust.
Difficulty developing social skills
Constant swearing can interfere with children's development of social skills.
They may have difficulty establishing trusting relationships with others and adapting to social situations.
Scolding children is an ineffective and harmful method of parenting that can cause serious damage to their emotional and psychological well-being.
Instead, psychologists recommend using positive interventions such as encouragement, support and understanding to help children develop and grow into confident and happy individuals.
Previously, we talked about which popular methods of raising a child actually don’t work.
