Parents were told the best ways to ruin relationships with children: you can’t imagine anything worse
You don't have to be a professional psychologist to maintain healthy relationships in your family.
Try to simply take someone's place in time. For example, when communicating with children, remember that you were also a child and brought your parents not only joy.
If you also learn to avoid awkward moments, then the prospect of maintaining healthy relationships in the family will become real.
Here are some tips to follow to avoid ruining your relationship with your children.
1. Parents should not hold back their feelings and emotions when communicating with their children, nor should they ignore the child's experiences. Children should understand that they are loved and appreciated.
2. There is no need to be overly critical of everything that children do. Any achievements should be reasonably encouraged, and failures should be helped to overcome.
3. Do not threaten, do not blackmail, do not subject to total control. Children should fulfill your demands not out of fear, but out of respect and love.
4. Children in the family should be equal, there is no need to make rivals out of them.
5. Remember that you need to ask your children for forgiveness for your mistakes and keep your promises.
6. Don't forget about personal space, which must not be violated.
7. Avoid overprotection and allow your child to make mistakes and correct them independently.
Failure to follow these simple rules is guaranteed to ruin your relationship with your children, or they will harbor a grudge for many years.
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