Divorce is a difficult period not only for spouses, but also for their children, who may experience this situation especially acutely.
Therefore, it is important that the child understands and accepts this new situation correctly.
To do this, mom and dad need to set aside time to talk with their son or daughter.
The conversation should be held in a calm environment. It should be a private place where the child will feel comfortable and will be able to express his emotions.
You must not raise your voice or blame your partner.
In addition, during the conversation, it is necessary to explain to the children that they are not to blame for what is happening.
All the child's questions should be answered in simple language, calmly, and at the same time, you should not lie to him. You need to support the child, give him time to get used to new information and the situation. You should not leave him alone with negative thoughts.
At the same time, it is important that he is sure that he has both parents who love him. Therefore, mom and dad need to continue to maintain constant contact with the child, continue to spend time together.
Previously, we talked about how to tell a child about the loss of a pet.