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A child will never become spoiled: experts reveal the main secrets of upbringing
19.02.2024 12:30
Loving parents will always run some risk of raising a spoiled child.
It’s hard to refuse your beloved children, because you want to make their life as happy as possible.
However, it is worth understanding that you need to raise a child correctly so that he does not grow up spoiled and capricious.
What tricks will help with this?
Accept the fact that your children may not like your decisions.
Many parents are afraid of looking bad in the eyes of their children, so they easily give in to persuasion and manipulation. But you are adults who objectively know what is best for the child. Children, due to limited experience, do not have such knowledge, experts say.
So accept the fact that not all your decisions will be met with delight. But when the child grows up, he will thank you.
Give up "market relations"
Many parents make this mistake. They offer their children some bonuses and concessions in order to get some results.
However, in this case, the child will try only to get the coveted "prize". And you should teach children that they achieve success for themselves personally, experts note.
Don't make concessions
If you have set clear rules, you cannot deviate from them. Children will quickly notice that you are weak and will start manipulating you.
In this case, the child grows up capricious and maladapted to life.
Earlier we talked about why you shouldn’t punish a child with your silence .
