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Not all parents have angelic patience and calm: sometimes adults can also lose their temper and yell at their child.
Some people reproach themselves for their lack of restraint, but there are also people who see nothing wrong with it.
The second position cannot exactly be called correct.
Any child is not psychologically prepared to be yelled at by adults. This has a very powerful negative impact on the psyche.
Some children become anxious and nervous for this reason. The child may simply withdraw into himself.
Therefore, it is always worth thinking about what impact your “emotional attack” will have on the psychological state of the child, experts note.
Any child intuitively understands: a person who is confident in himself and his words will not shout. If parents shout, it means they are demonstrating their own helplessness.
In such a case, you can simply irrevocably lose your authority in the eyes of your own children.
Earlier we talked about whether you should argue with your children or whether you should “hide” behind your authority .