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Why a child grows up dependent: 3 possible mistakes of parents
30.11.2023 06:20
It is desirable for the child to acquire as many skills as possible.
However, some children cannot learn the most basic things: tying shoelaces, cooking simple food, cleaning their room, etc.
In addition, problems in communication often arise: the child cannot find a common language with peers and adults.
And often this situation is caused by the parents. What do many moms and dads do wrong?
They don't allow you to acquire skills
Some parents do for their child what he could do himself.
It is not worth choosing such a strategy of education: there is no need to help the child in performing simple actions. Otherwise, important skills will never be acquired.
Yes, an inexperienced child will obviously make mistakes often. But he who does nothing makes no mistakes.
They control the child seriously
Making your child “account” for every walk and every conversation with classmates is the easiest way to protect your son or daughter from possible dangers.
But you shouldn't do that. Give your child at least partial freedom. After all, in many situations, a child should make decisions on his own, without consulting anyone. In addition, the baby should get used to responsibility for his actions.
They expect a lot from the baby
Don't set your child up to be an excellent student and achieve serious success in sports and music.
Because of such pressure, the child will lose self-confidence and will be afraid to make mistakes. Such a situation does not contribute to the development of independence.
