How to learn to sort things out without scenes and scandals: an interesting way
If a scandal is brewing in the family or a conflict with colleagues at work, then the following method can be called a way to extinguish it.
You can remain silent or hide, but no one guarantees that tomorrow your partner or interlocutor will not return to his old ways and then you will definitely have to answer.
This is precisely why the conflict must be extinguished and neutralized at its very origins.
Interesting way
As is known, during quarrels and conflicts, emotions boil and take precedence over reason.
But instead of throwing out accumulated or nature-given negativity, hold back and use this advice.
When someone raises their voice at you, remain calm externally and internally.
And as soon as it is your turn to answer, politely, tactfully and without sarcasm or irony, argue your point of view.
This trick works without fail. After all, the person who shouts expects you to act like him.
But hearing a calm and reasonable answer instead of screams, he will begin to give in.
It is quite possible that after a burst of anger and the end of the quarrel, he will even ask you for forgiveness.
For reference
A scandal is a widely publicized incident involving allegations of wrongdoing, shameful or immoral conduct.
