Sometimes we complain that we would like to be better, but in fact we do little to achieve this.
If we don’t go beyond our stated desire, then nothing in life will change.
It's funny to watch when an adult blames his mom and dad for an unhappy childhood, believing that they are responsible for all his failures.
Yes, parents could unwittingly cause psychological trauma and become the cause of complexes. However, it is in our power to work through all of this.
It is always easy to find an excuse: you just need to set a goal. But in this way you are simply justifying yourself to your friends and trying not to fall in your own eyes.
However, this will lead to you being stuck in the same place your whole life.
In order to really become better, you need to actively develop your brain and "load" it with work. Books are the best way to achieve this goal.
You can't dream of positive changes if you continue to act in a way that is not the best. In order to look people in the eye and be proud of yourself, you need to act according to your conscience.