A question is asked, but the interlocutor does not answer: how to “fish out” an answer - a simple psychological trick

30.04.2024 09:13

It is unpleasant when the interlocutor, having heard an important question, simply remains silent or clearly does not tell you something.

In such a situation, there is a desire to hear a full and honest answer.

But how to achieve the desired result? There is one little trick that is effective in most cases.

You need to "pressure" your interlocutor a little. No, you shouldn't shout, argue, get angry, threaten or demand an answer.

The most effective “weapon” in such a situation will be… silence.

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How to get your interlocutor to answer your question

Did the person decide to ignore the question you asked? Or did they give a short and incomplete answer?

Then just shut up and start looking straight into the eyes of your interlocutor.

There will be a pause that the other person will find not just awkward, but oppressive.

Most likely, after a few seconds the interlocutor will want to explain himself. Perhaps he will immediately tell the whole truth. Or, at least, will become less closed.

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Author: Kurchev Anton Deputy Editor-in-Chief