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Why Smart People Are Lonely: 3 Reasons
13.06.2024 05:50
People with high levels of intelligence very often end up lonely.
Why do many smart women and men never manage to find their soulmate?
It would seem that they have almost everything to improve their personal life: the ability to communicate on any topic, knowledge of the basics of psychology, the ability to analyze mistakes...
But there is something that prevents many of these people from finding love. What are we talking about?
Afraid of future difficulties
An intelligent person will definitely begin to analyze the consequences of starting a relationship and subsequently entering into marriage.
The thoughts will be something like this: “There will be much less free time, we will have to spend a lot of money, there will be quarrels, a child will be born - difficulties will arise, we will not cope, divorce and division of property are possible.”
Of course, this scenario is entirely possible. But some smart people are overly pessimistic, which is why they are afraid to even start a relationship.
They worry a lot about others
Oddly enough, a high level of empathy prevents one from becoming open to communication.
Excessive worry about other people quickly tires a person. He wants to be alone.
And unsociability does not contribute to the improvement of personal life.
They see their shortcomings
A stupid person may not see a single flaw in himself. But a smart person notices all or almost all the minuses.
In such circumstances, complexes arise that make it impossible to find a soulmate.
Earlier we talked about the manipulations women use to keep a man.
