What does an abusive woman look like: an image that scares men
The headlines of thematic sections are full of reports about victims of abusive men, but this is no reason to believe that women are not familiar with such behavior.
Female abuse is a fairly common phenomenon, and the image of such a woman frankly frightens a man.
Experts have named the main forms of abuse on the part of a weak woman.
How does it manifest itself?
1. Most often, this is a psychological influence on a man with the purpose of suppressing him and controlling his behavior. It may be accompanied by the use of phrases that insult and humiliate male dignity.
In such cases, ladies like to ask where the gentleman's hands are growing from, or openly declare that there is no use for a man in the house.
2. Ladies do not miss the opportunity to reproach a man for any mistake in order to arouse a feeling of guilt. Often they add "You have ruined my whole life" or ruined my youth.
3. The next forbidden female technique in healthy relationships is devaluation. To be fair, it should be noted that abusers resort to it regardless of gender.
Or the opposite option – overprotection, when a woman is suspicious of her husband’s friends, calling them “drunkards” and other offensive words.
4. Another sign of female abuse is the so-called emotional swings. When a lady first reveres her husband, and then claims that there is no room for stigma on him.
5. And also, abusive women like to blackmail men. When offended, they stop communicating, cooking, and express dissatisfaction in other ways.
But the most important thing is that in any of the above cases, in the woman’s understanding, the man is deprived of the right to act in a mirror manner, i.e. to be offended or to express his decisive protest in another way.
Earlier we talked about what men lack in marriage .
