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Why a man should not distance himself from parenting issues: experts list the main reasons
06.03.2024 21:30
Almost all of them grew up in families where issues of upbringing were almost entirely the responsibility of women: mothers and sometimes grandmothers.
Many consider this approach to be normal and correct.
According to this logic, a man is busy with exhausting work all day long in order to fully provide for his family. Therefore, the "breadwinner" needs a full, quality rest.
But now the situation has changed a lot. In some families, half of the family budget is the woman's salary. Therefore, it is worth knowing why a man should also take an active part in the life and upbringing of a child.
What are the reasons?
Psychology
Many adults have complexes and psychological problems related to their father. Often the reason is banal: the man did not take part in the children's lives, was distant, did not express emotions and was generally very "distant".
As a result, children's lives turn out completely differently than they could have. Therefore, it is worth providing for the child not only financially, but also emotionally.
It's not very fair to the woman.
If the mother takes an active part in forming the family budget, then she can also be called a "breadwinner". Women also get tired at work and dream of having a good rest.
Therefore, you shouldn’t leave all the responsibilities for raising and maintaining the house to the lady: they should be divided.
This approach will only make the family stronger, experts note.
Example
If a father is absent from a child's life, this is the most eloquent example to follow. Sons will then behave in the same way, and daughters will not see anything wrong with their husband's laziness.
Therefore, you should give your children the best example you can.
Earlier we talked about the signs that indicate that a child has an increased level of resentment .
